The topic of masculinity is an interesting one to discuss, as it has a storied histroy, and both great and terrible examples we can use as reference points.

Of course, when speaking of masculinity, it’s important to consider our own, and how we may stack up to our own standards. This kind of inquiry is important because as Socrates once said, the unexamined life is not worth living.

While it can seem as though society and pop culture are somewhat on the offensive against masculinity as of late, good masculinity well directed can be one of the most powerful and important things on earth, essential for familial stability, good values, and fairness to take root.

But what is the best version of your masculinity? As we are all in the process of becoming better men and moving forward to our ideal future, this kind of topic can enliven the imaginations of men from around the world who wish to know the vital formula that can transform a weak, cowardly guy into a strong, independent and trustworthy man.

Here is some advice as we see it:

PROTECTING YOURSELF

It’s important to know how to protect yourself as a man. This doesn’t mean you need to be as tough as someone in the special forces, nor should you parade yourself as being so. Real toughness is quiet, humble, respectful. It should also only be practiced as a last resort. However, not being able to protect yourself will mean you are never authentic, because you never have that ability underneath, you can be disingenuous in many interactions. For example, Jiu Jitsu knife defense lessons may just help you save your life at some point in the future, and knowing this fact can help you feel more confident, aware, humble, and alert.

PROTECTING YOUR FAMILY

It’s important to protect your family, as any man should. Through home security equipment, staying aware, ensuring that your family abides by healthy and self-preserving practice, ensuring that you try to avoid those with negative intentions or communicate respectfully with those who may have a problem and always keeping an eye on your children and spouse will be important. This way, you can ensure those closest to you are cared for.

DISCIPLINE AS A CONDUIT

A man without discipline will always struggle. Discipline is the art of keeping promises to yourself. If you can focus on trying your best with this, then you can apply a better and more comprehensive approach to goal setting, because you know that you will always try. Discipline is not loud, does not celebrate bravado, and it’s much more reliable than motivation. When building this, you will slowly start to realize that you can achieve anything you wish to, and this both textures and softens your character, because you will have little to prove to others.

With this advice, you are certain to find the best version of your masculinity. This can be a heroic journey if you plan it correctly.