Chances are if you are getting married, your wife-to-be is doing the majority of the planning and organizing of the big day.

Perhaps this is the way she wanted it, or maybe you actively took a step back in order to prevent any conflict or arguments about key decisions. Whatever the reason, your future spouse is probably feeling a tad stressed out right about now.

In fact, did you know that getting married is in the top ten most stressful events that can occur in someone’s lifetime?

Of course, it’s not hard to see why. There is so much to organize and decide upon, plus you have to try and keep both families’ relatives content in the run–up to the big day.

Therefore, why not make your wife-to-be a little less stressed and a little more happy by creating a selection of surprises that will ensure she feels supported and loved as she organizesthe wedding of the year.

A BRIDAL BOUDOIR PHOTOSHOOT

Every bride wants to look and feel their best on their wedding day. Unfortunately, organizing a wedding can take its toll, and so your partner might be feeling more weary than wonderful. Therefore, why not treat them to a boudoir photography session?

A chance for your bride-to-be to feel pampered, gorgeous and empowered, plus, you will be both be left with a memorable keepsake that you can treasure for the rest of your lives together.

A WEDDING JOURNAL

In the run–up to the wedding, it can be a sweet and sentimental idea to start your own wedding journal that you can present to your wife on your wedding night.

What you write about is up to you, but some great ideas include:

A BREAKFAST BASKET

The morning of the wedding itself can be a whirlwind of getting ready and sorting out any last-minute hiccups, so why not surprise your bride-to-be with a breakfast basket that contains all her favorite morning foods?

Not only is this a thoughtful gift that will ensure your partner starts their wedding day with a smile, but it will also take the stress out of her having to arrange breakfast herself.

Make sure you choose foods that are easy to eat and ones that won’t mess up her makeup or hair preparations.

A SPECIAL VIDEO MESSAGE

This is a particularly good idea if you have gone down the traditional route and stayed apart the night before your wedding, as your bride-to-be is no doubt missing you as well as feeling nervous about the day ahead.

Take the time to record a message that reassures your partner about your upcoming nuptials and the love that you have for one another. Humor is also a great way of alleviating any last-minute nerves.

Try not to make your message too heartfelt though, as you don’t want your bride to cry and ruin her makeup!