There are many articles and videos on the internet that give women tips on how to look their best when it comes to charming their partners on their first date, but you rarely see any advice for men on how to get ready to ensure the first date goes as smoothly as possible. Even though you don’t wear make-up, you probably have a routine in place to keep yourself looking your best and ready to face the day, and here are some tips and techniques to help you get ready for that all-important first date!
Buy flowers
While it isn’t required for a first date, arriving with flowers for your hopefully soon-to-be girlfriend is always a good gesture. They don’t have to be expensive; just a token to give them at the start of the date to make them feel special will suffice. It will go a long way, believe me!
Impress her
Impressing your date from the get go is important, so take some time to think about what you could do to make a good first impression. Women love the manly man, so rocking up on a motorcycle to your first date is sure to give her butterflies. You can go to Public Motorcycle Auctions to buy second hand motorcycles if you’re looking for a bargain.
Scrub up!
The next item on your to-do list is to clean up so you can look your best for your date. Here are some key areas to concentrate on:
- Hair and beard – Get a new haircut and shave your beard. Giving your beard a trim will make you stand out, whether you’re typically clean shaven or have a beard. Of course, shaving comes with its own set of risks, so be sure you’re using electric trimmers that won’t leave you with a rash or, worse, wounds on your face.
- Breath – whether you realize it or not, everyone has a distinct odor on their breath, and the last thing you want on a first date is to have bad breath (especially if you get a chance for a kiss!). Before your date, brush your teeth carefully and use mouthwash, and if you’re very self-conscious, chew some gum to freshen your breath.
- Clothes – Creased clothes are one of the worst first impressions to make. It’s up to you whether you iron your clothes every day, but on your first date, make sure everything is beautifully pressed and coordinated. A basic pair of nice jeans and a shirt, depending on where you’re going, will suffice.
Women love to be wined and dined
Make sure you’re reminding yourself how to treat your date before your date so you can make a great first impression. Pull out the chair and offer to take her coat if you’re going out to dinner. You’ll be on to a winner if you treat her the way she wants to be treated.
Complimenting your date on her appearance is another method to woo her. There’s a good probability she’s spent hours getting ready for her date and is feeling extremely self-conscious about her appearance. It will make her happy if you notice minor touches on which she has clearly invested time!
If you’re eating with your date, make sure you’re using proper table manners since, as you’ll undoubtedly agree, there’s nothing worse than seeing someone eat and feeling disgusted by the way they’re eating! Here are some helpful hints for eating elegantly on a date.
Don’t hide your personality!
Finally, while it’s understandable that you want to impress your date, it’s equally important to remember to be yourself. Many men and women make the mistake of attempting to be flawless, only to learn afterwards that there are aspects of each other that aren’t quite right. To obtain a true sense of whether this person is compatible with you, ask genuine questions and offer honest replies to the questions you are asked. Most importantly, remember to smile! A smile is the best make-up or outfit anyone can wear since it instantly transforms your entire face!
All of this information may appear to be overwhelming, yet it all boils down to a few simple points:
- Scrubbing up properly for your date so you can feel and look your best.
- Making her feel nice by complimenting her.
- Maintaining proper etiquette
- Smiling and being yourself
If you do all of these things, your first date will be a success. Remember that no matter how hard you try, people aren’t always compatible, but if you create a good first impression, you might find yourself in romantic ecstasy very soon!
Thanks for reading and y’all stay dandy.
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