The start of a new relationship is an exciting time. It is a time that you spend getting to know all of the things about your new significant other that you never knew before. From favorite foods to their interests and hobbies, you are essentially learning all there is to know about this person who has taken on a new role in your life.
That being said, not knowing all about a person’s interests and likes can make it difficult to find them the perfect present. This means that if you start dating someone new at a time that is relatively close to a special event or holiday, you might very well find yourself scrambling to choose a gift that they will enjoy.
You don’t want to strike the wrong tone so close to the start of a relationship by accidentally getting them something that they dislike or that really isn’t to their taste. However, getting them an overly expensive gift or going over the top can also send the wrong message at the beginning of a relationship.
If you are currently struggling to find the perfect present for someone with whom you have just started a new relationship, here are a few tips to help you along so that you can find the ideal gift.
Don’t Overspend
One thing that can really put a person off when you are just starting out in a relationship together is an over-the-top or extravagant gift that clearly costs you way too much. Such a gesture might be well-intended, but it can make you seem too eager to please and generally set the wrong tone.
Take care not to spend too much on the gift that you are getting for your new significant other. You can easily find amazing gifts for her or the perfect present for him without breaking the bank. By curbing your spending a bit but still finding a great gift, you are demonstrating maturity, responsibility, as well as thoughtfulness.
Make it a Date
If you are truly struggling to come up with an actual present for your new boyfriend or girlfriend, try thinking outside the box – literally. Consider purchasing tickets to a concert or other event that you can attend together. You can make a completely perfect date out of such a gift by including a nice meal out as part of the gift.
By going this route, you will not only be able to give your new significant other the perfect gift, but you will also be making some great memories together that you can look back on when you reminisce about the early days of your relationship.
Go for something luxurious
When you are first starting out on your romantic journey with your partner, you’re going to want them to feel as special as possible. One way in which you can achieve this goal is by treating them to something luxurious this holiday season. For example, if they’re a big lover of skincare (with a 100 step beauty regimen to boot), you can’t go wrong with a trip to the spa. Furthermore, this could be something that you could do together, which gives you plenty of time to bond and spend some quality one-on-one time in a place that you’d both enjoy. Alternatively, cigars are a great luxurious gift (particularly for the men in your life). Not only do cigar’s satisfy a guilty pleasure, but they’re also a great way to mark a special occasion. So, whether your partner is an occasional smoker or has never tried a cigar before, this could be the perfect gift for them. However, you should ensure that you do plenty of research ahead of time so that you buy them a cigar you know you will love. For example, you could speak to an expert or read reviews of cigars, such as the ever-popular Hoyo de Monterrey Epicure No. 2. This way, you’ll know you are making the right choice!
Keep it General
Since you are at the start of your relationship, your new boyfriend or girlfriend will undoubtedly understand that finding the right gift can be tricky. Because of this, you are in one of those rare scenarios when gifting something that is a bit more general in nature is ok. You can personalize things a bit, but don’t be afraid to go with something that is a bit on the generic side.
Thanks for reading and y’all stay dandy.
-Diego
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